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Jada Pinkett Smith's letter to a friend


No doubt, as love would have it, take it that one step further......... if your marriage ends, due to your own decision or that of the spouse...... for your children's sake, open your heart and mind to the new love of the other parent...... because like it or not, they become a part of your child's life and it's up to you to set the example of bitterness or love.  You choose what your children learn *learned* from you.  And they will live what they learn.

As God is my witness, I will choose to leave a legacy of love and compassion.  I have forgiven and live in that freedom every day.  Despite the difficulties, this is what I will teach mine.  May it glorify Him. 

 A