PAS on your TV

I'm not a fan of Dr. Phil either. Mostly, because like lots of other bad TV, he thrives on drama (anyone's drama) and even creates it when what's real isn't sufficient to fill the time slot.

What I see here as good is that, like Dr. Phil and other bad TV/media, the type of people who watch this programming are also the type of people who commit PAS. Cause they like drama. In my opinion, PAS and drama addiction should be listed in the DSM V. I guess drama addiction is too general a term, it probably falls under Psychosis.

Because you really have to .... ".... LOVE YOUR CHILDREN MORE THAN YOU HATE YOUR EX" (quote by Bessie Hudgins of Three Sides to Every Story) It's not only the alienated parent who suffers, it's grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. who aren't allowed to be a part of this child's life. But the child suffers the most damage from this behavior and they don't even know it.

For those of you who aren't sure of this anagram, it's Parental Alienation Syndrom (PAS). It's rampant in divorces. The only kudos I'll probably ever give to Dr. Phil is that he did a show about it.

http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/?p=10821

Thanks again to Fathers & Families and author of the post, Robert Franklin, for the good info.

To see an interview click here... http://www.wics.com/newsroom/top_stories/videos/wics_vid_2969.shtml

It's much healthier for you and your children if you promote and encourage loving relationships.

Try it.


.

Luke 6:27-28 (NIV)

27"But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.

...

_____________________________________
Our prime purpose in this life is to help others.
And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.
- The Dalai Lama
_____________________________________

Forward Thinking and With A Conscience

Finally, a few states are actually placing actual information about how they might assist the payor. Long overdue.

https://www.oag.state.tx.us/cs/parents/step1_ncp.shtml

http://www.wreg.com/news/wreg-childsupport-story,0,5877726.story

http://statejournal.com/story.cfm?func=viewstory&storyid=84275


You can't draw blood from a turnip.

I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.-- Martin Luther King

From the beginning, my husband wasn't aggressive or even tactical when it came to child support issues. He has always said 'Whatever happens to her, happens to my girls.' - always wanting just the best for all of them. That's just another reason why I love him. I'm so glad that my boys have an example of strong loving parents who stick together - come what may - in their lives. We're not perfect, but we do the best we can.

Here's hoping for your family, that you keep grounded and love each other.

me

Happens all the time

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100501190045AAa0nk1

"The only thing new in the world is the history you don't know."

Harry S. Truman

"If you have to hide something,
you probably did something wrong."
that quote is by the most brilliant lady I've ever known...
.. my Mom