Welcome Comments

In response to a couple of recent comments:

To R.: Thanks for the love and support.
Luv, from Me


To D.: Bless your heart, you've been misinformed. I'm glad to hear that you don't attempt to marginalize your child's father. Your child will benefit from it. Thank you for offering a prayer for us.
Good luck, from Me

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.... and to anyone else who has already or is considering making a comment.....


I will point out to you that most of the information on our website and blog is directed to the divorce industry; lawmakers, states, lawyers, courts, judges. If you don't want to be discussed in this blog, don't comment. This blog was not directed at any one person, which you can tell if you've read other posts, until the "other side" decided to bring attention to themselves, comment in unpleasant ways and drag everyone in earshot into it. If that's what they do, good for them. Not surprising.

Comments that are unpleasant toward another person will not be published...

.....the only exception I've made is for a (supposed) daughter of a particular fiasco who vented (if it was even really her - I gave the benefit of the doubt) and I've tolerated it for now.

Anyone who visits any of my blogs hoping for some drama or thinking that this legal issue will play out here in blogland...

Move along little doggy.
Go get your drama fix somewhere else.

That's not how we roll.

See - it says 'By the mom' at the top of the page. And everything that I write herein is my opinion.

So, in retrospect, I called out for some truth. Mae culpa. I do hope that telling the truth doesn't offend anyone. If you have to hide something - you probably did something wrong.

To say that it's okay for anyone to steal or lie because someone else deserves to be treated that way is really inappropriate (can u believe someone actually said that ?) and I hope you don't teach that to your kids - touché - that kind of business is not a "desperate times calls for desperate measures" activity... but there are many other appropriate descriptive words for it....

When people have some respect for others and behave kindly, all kinds of disagreements can be worked out. The jist of it is - that the divorce industry doesn't benefit from you working it out and they allow and even encourage people to keep pushing each other. It keeps the industry humming. The states get funds from the federal government for the amount of money they can collect. So, the only ones held accountable for anything are the ones they target to get money from. States have budgets to meet. It has to be profitable. Greed is never satisfied.